It’s interesting isn’t it, all the parts of us. Like scrub me is very different than public me (most of the time) and I’m okay with that. I can be part scrub, part double wear foundation you know, but is everyone else okay with that? Will they get it? Stupid example but.
I think there’s lots of fun to be had online, and social media can definitely enhance some things, especially business. But in other aspects I feel like we all look the same? Wear the same? Buy the same things? All know our attachment styles…
Like you said without the influence, you’ve just got to wonder? What then? Who would I be?
I’m glad I’m not the only one who has to stay mostly off the sauce 🤣 I’d invite you to every party I had also 🥹
Adore this writing and it’s hitting us in a wave, those of us who feel similarly have been drawn to this piece. I truly resonate with you, the feeling of selling myself, for someone else.. because after all, “it’s a free platform” is etched into my brain.
I’m changing the way I use and look at it and I feel freeeee.
It’s free, the only thing it costs is my undiluted attention and buying something some woman told me too who is half my size and twice as tall and being bitterly disappointed when it arrives 🤣❤️
Bloody love that for you. Boundaries all round horahh! xx
Who will I be if there’s no one around to see who I am is something I feel I’m currently exploring… while being who everyone expects me to be online
I always wonder what my life would be like if I wasn’t so online, I know online brings some positives to my life but I also think it would dramatically change if I was offline
What do I really like? What makes me feel good? What do I want to do? I’m so influenced.
I find it hard because I know some things are positive and some very negative
I love your writing and hope I can keep reading even when you’re offline
I think you’re amazing and I’d invite you to every party I have - I don’t have many 🙃 and definitely cry about being a twat in the bath the next day so try to just stick to coffee and brunch these days
It’s one of the bitterly sweet parting gifts of grief when we realise nothing matters that much, apart from the things that do. And let’s be serious, we’d rather not learn that lesson the way we all seem to.
You are incredible strong and soft all at the same time Kate, and it makes me so happy you do whatever the fuck you want these days and follow that thread of joy through your life x
It’s interesting isn’t it, all the parts of us. Like scrub me is very different than public me (most of the time) and I’m okay with that. I can be part scrub, part double wear foundation you know, but is everyone else okay with that? Will they get it? Stupid example but.
I think there’s lots of fun to be had online, and social media can definitely enhance some things, especially business. But in other aspects I feel like we all look the same? Wear the same? Buy the same things? All know our attachment styles…
Like you said without the influence, you’ve just got to wonder? What then? Who would I be?
I’m glad I’m not the only one who has to stay mostly off the sauce 🤣 I’d invite you to every party I had also 🥹
xxx
Adore this writing and it’s hitting us in a wave, those of us who feel similarly have been drawn to this piece. I truly resonate with you, the feeling of selling myself, for someone else.. because after all, “it’s a free platform” is etched into my brain.
I’m changing the way I use and look at it and I feel freeeee.
Thank you for sharing ❤️
It’s free, the only thing it costs is my undiluted attention and buying something some woman told me too who is half my size and twice as tall and being bitterly disappointed when it arrives 🤣❤️
Bloody love that for you. Boundaries all round horahh! xx
Who will I be if there’s no one around to see who I am is something I feel I’m currently exploring… while being who everyone expects me to be online
I always wonder what my life would be like if I wasn’t so online, I know online brings some positives to my life but I also think it would dramatically change if I was offline
What do I really like? What makes me feel good? What do I want to do? I’m so influenced.
I find it hard because I know some things are positive and some very negative
I love your writing and hope I can keep reading even when you’re offline
I think you’re amazing and I’d invite you to every party I have - I don’t have many 🙃 and definitely cry about being a twat in the bath the next day so try to just stick to coffee and brunch these days
Xx
It’s one of the bitterly sweet parting gifts of grief when we realise nothing matters that much, apart from the things that do. And let’s be serious, we’d rather not learn that lesson the way we all seem to.
You are incredible strong and soft all at the same time Kate, and it makes me so happy you do whatever the fuck you want these days and follow that thread of joy through your life x